Update from Nikita

I’ve been in contact with Nikita from time to time since PASS Summit last fall. She’s had so many ups and downs over the last five years and has recently been diagnosed with PTSD. For those of you not familiar with her, here’s a summary of her story:

I met Nikita at PASS Summit 2019 when she was the room monitor for my session. She could tell I was feeling extra nervous about my presentation and helped me relax before going into the room. She impressed me so much with her joyful outlook and positivity that I included her story in the December 2019 WIT Newsletter in an article about what goes on behind the scenes at Summit. I felt that she was something special, we talked about a possible blog for her or some podcast interviews.

Of course, the world turned upside down a few months later. Nikita contacted me with some horrible news. She had been at a protest with a friend when she was shot in the face by law enforcement. Because of that incident, she lost sight in her left eye. Nikita has dealt with constant pain in her face due to complications of the second surgery where she has ended up with a metal bracket and a rubber band and support of the damage to her left eye. The cold months have an extreme effect on her mobility

Obviously, the trauma and injury have limited her ability to work and cause so many problems in her life, but she had found a job at a bakery that she really loved. Things seemed to be turning around for her, and she decided to try working a week at the convention center — the week of PASS Summit 2024! She probably greeted you at the door or gave you directions if you attended the Summit. She was still the “ray of sunshine” that she was five years ago, but she’s so good at hiding her pain. She made an impression on many people that week!

Just when things were turning around for her, she was attacked in her apartment building the last day of the event. So many people in the US can go from stability to dire straits in the blink of an eye. Nikita found herself unable to work for several months with bills piling up.

Unfortunately, there was another turn of events and Nikita was severely hurt this weekend in a scooter accident. Coming home from a Christian rap concert one block away she had left ended up hitting a pothole and well the rest leaving her at Harborview for 7 hours and suffering injuries of swollen hands legs ankles scrapes to the knees face hands ears etc. Now Nikita is laying back up trying to endure her new situation.   I literally just found out of Nikita’s injuries, and I said to her are we going to need to Bubble Wrap you??

Today, she is still at the bakery and enjoys working at events such as cake tasting and prepping ingredients after hours. She was thrilled about being asked to work at an event at the Chihuly Glass Center and hopes to be able to work at more events.

Recently, she visited her sister in Las Vegas and stayed at an Air BnB. The owners were especially kind to Nikita, and she asked me to share the link in case anyone would like to know about a great place to stay near the strip. It’s newly remodeled and perfect for longer stays.

One of the things that I admire about Nikita, is that when life knocks her down, she always gets back up and tries again. She’s always a “ray of sunshine” no matter what comes her way.

Please reach out to me if you would like to get in contact with her.

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Help requested for a friend of PASS Summit

A few years ago, I was presenting on a cloud topic at PASS Summit that was still in preview. The day I arrived in Seattle, I attempted to practice my demo, and everything had changed. Luckily, my session was late in the week, so I had time to make adjustments to my session, but I was freaking out.

As I walked up to the session room, the room monitor, Nikita, noticed that I was stressed. We started talking, and she suggested that I do a breathing exercise with her. “Smell the flowers; blow out the candle.” That really did help, and the presentation was a success.

After the session, we talked more about how she spread joy wherever she could. I was surprised when Heidi Hastings walked up and joined the conversation. Heidi and Nikita had already become friends that week.

A photo of Heidi Hastings, Nikita, and Kathi Kellenberger at PASS Summit

I’ve kept in touch with Nikita over the years through texting but hadn’t seen her since. Things haven’t been easy for her, but she is always joyful.

This year, I received a text message. She was back working at the Convention Center for PASS Summit and wondered if I would be there. She took a week off work from her bakery job to work the Summit because the pay was better, but also because she loves our community. You may have met Nikita at PASS Summit at the entrance near the restaurant throughout the week. She talked to many of us, especially giving encouragement to the speakers.

On Friday morning, she wasn’t at her post. I wondered if she was sick or maybe just didn’t plan to work that day. I didn’t think too much about it until I received a text from her asking to talk. The reason she didn’t make it to the convention center on the last day is because she was assaulted and seriously injured that morning. To make things worse, she is still not able to work.

Nikita is such a sweet person, really a ray of sunshine who sees good in everyone. Right now, she is not only hurting physically; she’s lost her income as well.

If you met Nikita at PASS Summit, I would love for you to reach out by sharing well wishes or by sending her a few dollars to help her get by until she’s able to get back to work. I don’t want to publicly share her information, so please contact me here and I’ll send you her Venmo or pass along well wishes.

Update from Nikita on December 4th:

Hello beloveds. Well, I’m about 26 days in after my attack, and I felt that it was only right to provide you all with an update.

Honestly, things have been very challenging, confusing, and out of sort. I am trying my best to figure it out and just take it moment by moment.

Unfortunately, I have missed about three and a half weeks of work, but I am so blessed and grateful for the ones that provided me blessings, prayers, and little gold nuggets to help me get through this unfortunate time.

I am doing my best to take necessary action, so I have a court date on December 5th in regard to this protection order.

Again, thank you so much for those who took their time and energy to check on me, whether it was a text message, a phone call , or an email.

Wishing all a beautiful happy and healthy holiday season,

Nikita

!!Please fill out contact form or contact Kathi Kellenberger on Facebook if you would like to correspond to Nikita!!

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